I am having such a hard time finding my Holiday Spirit this year. Maybe its because I cant get out to do my normal activities or shopping. Maybe its because I'm just physically and mentally exhausted. Maybe it's because my heart is heavy from having to make decisions I dont want to make.
I made an attempt to get things started today. I moved the book shelves to the hall alcove to make room for the tree. My son dug the decorations out for me. That's as far as I got.
Tonight I bundled Bob up after Dark and decided to walk around the neighborhood to see some of the lights the neighbors have put up. The whole time Bob just really wanted to go home to his chair.
I'll Look for my spirit again tomorrow..
Alzheimers/Dementia causes such a feeling of loneliness. It seems compounded during the holidays.
I did get my first Christmas Card of the season ... It was from the Cable Company.. wishing Me ..." Dear Valued Customer" a Very Happy Holiday Season. LOL.
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
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Sunday, December 7, 2014
Friday, December 20, 2013
All Wrapped Up
Today it snowed- alot. It kept us from going on our daily walk and doing most things we would normally do to keep Bob busy and burn up some energy.
As a last ditch effort to keep him busy I asked him if he wanted to help me wrap a few Christmas presents.
First- You need to understand that I do not think I have ever received a "giftwrapped" package from Bob since I have known him.. well I take that back- He once bought me a Sewing machine and wrapped it with Paper Towels. It was kind of a running joke with him- He once gave the boys gifts wrapped in Toilet Paper and told them the "paper" was to be used- It was part of the gift.
So- I sat Bob at the desk with a toy truck to be wrapped. Gave him scissors, paper and tape and I sat across the room wrapping about 6 other gifts. I watched him wrap- Unwrap- Refold- wrap- over and over... I went out to the living room and put the gifts I had wrapped under the tree and went back to check his progress-- He was had a huge grin on his face as he was adding the bow-- He said-- "All done-- I think it looks great- what do you think?" I saw that grin and it just made my day- I said- "Its perfect Put it under the tree"
Of course the scissors and the tape are wrapped in with the truck--But he did it-
I just need to remember to watch the Grandson open that one- Wonder what he will think about the scissors and tape- LOL.
As a last ditch effort to keep him busy I asked him if he wanted to help me wrap a few Christmas presents.
First- You need to understand that I do not think I have ever received a "giftwrapped" package from Bob since I have known him.. well I take that back- He once bought me a Sewing machine and wrapped it with Paper Towels. It was kind of a running joke with him- He once gave the boys gifts wrapped in Toilet Paper and told them the "paper" was to be used- It was part of the gift.
So- I sat Bob at the desk with a toy truck to be wrapped. Gave him scissors, paper and tape and I sat across the room wrapping about 6 other gifts. I watched him wrap- Unwrap- Refold- wrap- over and over... I went out to the living room and put the gifts I had wrapped under the tree and went back to check his progress-- He was had a huge grin on his face as he was adding the bow-- He said-- "All done-- I think it looks great- what do you think?" I saw that grin and it just made my day- I said- "Its perfect Put it under the tree"
Of course the scissors and the tape are wrapped in with the truck--But he did it-
I just need to remember to watch the Grandson open that one- Wonder what he will think about the scissors and tape- LOL.
Labels:
Alzheimers,
caregiver,
Christmas,
Dementia,
Journey,
keeping busy,
Spouse
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Holiday Confusion
I put the tree up. I set the Christmas village up. Bob gets confused so easily these days that I figured I should keep the decorations to a minimum.
I was right- Just having those two things set up is causing problems. He walks around looking for what was where the tree is now-- I show him-- and 5 minutes later he is looking again.
Last night I was in the basement taking care of a load of laundry. I came up and he was unwrapping a gift I had gotten for grandson Carrson
. I said-- What are you doing?--
He said- "seeing what we got"--
Me-That one is for Carrson..
He said-- Thank god because I didnt want a train.
OY!
Back towrapping rewrapping-- Note to self-- Keep presents hidden till Christmas.
I was right- Just having those two things set up is causing problems. He walks around looking for what was where the tree is now-- I show him-- and 5 minutes later he is looking again.
Last night I was in the basement taking care of a load of laundry. I came up and he was unwrapping a gift I had gotten for grandson Carrson
. I said-- What are you doing?--
He said- "seeing what we got"--
Me-That one is for Carrson..
He said-- Thank god because I didnt want a train.
OY!
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Labels:
Alzheimers,
caregiver,
Christmas,
Dementia,
Holiday,
Journey,
keeping busy,
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