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I am so tired of making life decisions all by myself.  Especially when it affects more then just me. When You are used to having your spouse give you feedback or an opinion, and that feedback just "stops",  but they are still involved in the outcome.. Well--It sucks.. I worry and I stress about things that should be so simple. Its even worse when I think Bob is having a good enough day to try and communicate with and I get some obscure comment that had nothing at all to do with what I was asking.
I need a supervisor. Or maybe a coin to flip. This journey through Dementia/Alzheimers sure is a lonely one. I hate this disease.