I am not going to go into great detail as that is pointless. Today both boys stopped by to check on us and to help with a few little things around the house.
And Today, for the first time ever, Bob was really rude and mean to one of them. I saw the flash of pain on my sons face and the tears in his eyes, as Bob barked at him and it about tore me in half. And of course I instantly tried to "fix" the un-fixable. My son regrouped but I know he was beyond hurt. He left here with a very heavy heart. I really understand why people avoid coming around.
I really hate this disease. :(